After a wife and mom read the accounts of two women who tried — but didn't really like — anal sex, she got in touch with me to talk about why she likes it so much. Here, she shares her tips for experimenting with anal sex and discusses the stigma surrounding it.
"I felt so bad for the women in the previous article, having anal sex when it obviously wasn't something they liked. We're in charge of our sexuality, and we ought to own it. I love anal (and HATE receiving oral), so I'm really weird, but so what? I have someone who appreciates me for me.
I first tried it 15 years ago, with my husband. I’d had fantasies about it before, and was more into doing it — I expected to like it as much as I ultimately do. We had tried buttplay before, using fingers, and I always loved it. I don’t talk about it with my friends much, because there’s a stigma against women who enjoy it. Either they’re sluts, or they’re lying for male validation. Neither one is true for me.
I first tried it 15 years ago, with my husband. I’d had fantasies about it before, and was more into doing it — I expected to like it as much as I ultimately do. We had tried buttplay before, using fingers, and I always loved it. I don’t talk about it with my friends much, because there’s a stigma against women who enjoy it. Either they’re sluts, or they’re lying for male validation. Neither one is true for me.
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