I've been married for 19 years and have great sex with my husband. Recently, I've been having dreams I'm having lesbian sex. I get so aroused I wake up really disturbed and hot. Is this normal? Am I losing my desire for men?
If you're having great sex with your husband, you're not losing your desire for men, but you are adding a new fantasy to your sex life. Fantasies are good (and normal). This might be a fantasy that you've been suppressing for a while, and your subconscious is now bringing it up. Remember that a fantasy is just that; it doesn't mean you will act on it.
Don't feel guilty or shameful about having a sexual fantasy. And it's up to you whether you want to share it with your husband; most people don't tell their lovers what their sexual fantasies are because they worry the other person might judge them (or freak out.)
If you want to explore fantasies with your husband, you should each write down your three top fantasies and read them to each other. You may want to incorporate this particular fantasy into your sex life by watching some porn together -- it almost always features two girls together. See if that does anything for you. (I guarantee your husband will love sharing that activity with you.)
Don't feel guilty or shameful about having a sexual fantasy. And it's up to you whether you want to share it with your husband; most people don't tell their lovers what their sexual fantasies are because they worry the other person might judge them (or freak out.)
If you want to explore fantasies with your husband, you should each write down your three top fantasies and read them to each other. You may want to incorporate this particular fantasy into your sex life by watching some porn together -- it almost always features two girls together. See if that does anything for you. (I guarantee your husband will love sharing that activity with you.)
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