Bedding your boss
Authority figures are a popular theme in female fantasies, and tend to show up mostly in female submissive fantasies. Many of the women who fantasised about their boss admitted they wouldn't be interested at all in real life. However, submitting to authority in fantasy can help some women relieve guilt they may have about particular sex acts - they're not being 'bad' if they're being 'forced' to do what they're told by their boss.
For some women, particularly those with stressful lives, submissive fantasies offer an opportunity to let go of control and let someone else take charge. Though some women may genuinely fancy their boss, this fantasy is just as likely - if not more - to be about power: and in all the fantasies submitted, the woman was on the receiving end of a lot of pleasure, showing who's really the boss in this kind of fantasy.
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