Sunday, April 3, 2011

Does she prefer her vibrator over me?

My fiancée has a high libido but has relied on a vibrator for the last 15 years. I'm celibate. Should I insist that she refrain from using the vibrator before the wedding?
Answer
You need to replace that vibrator — with your fingers, mouth, and penis. I wouldn't worry about what she does before the wedding, but what you do afterward. You're dealing with some tough competition, but you can handle it. Since you won't be celibate much longer, you need to get in there and learn how to please her. Since that vibrator knows what it's doing, you're going to have to brush up on your fingering and licking techniques. If she's not using the vibrator, she's not going to have miraculous orgasms on her own; only 30% of women have orgasm through intercourse only, so that's why women love it when men finger them and go down on them; otherwise, orgasms might never ever happen. Practice on her by starting with some finger strokes: Apply some lube and rub in circular motion. Also try a "petting" stroke like you're petting a cat. Use two fingers as you see the sexual tension building up, and keep the rhythm going. As she becomes aroused, you can also try inserting a finger and pressing on her G-spot, located on the upper wall of the vagina. Also, try different licking strokes like up-and-down ones and swirly-swirls. Have fun with your new sex life rather than dreading it and resenting her past vibrator use. The good news is that she has a high sex drive. The even better news is that women prefer the real thing.

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