Sunday, April 3, 2011

Can my boyfriend tell when I'm aroused?

What are the best ways to get sexually in sync?
Answer
Guys can't even tell when we're having an orgasm, so they probably can't figure out when we're aroused. One physical indication, however, is that when we women get sexually excited, our vaginas secrete lubricating fluid, which makes us feel "wet." So if he feels you getting wetter, you're probably getting more aroused. Also, our hearts start pounding and our breathing gets deeper. Our pupils get dilated too, and we may get flushed all over, but these are things that men don't notice because they are too busy getting excited themselves. Other physical indications of sexual arousal include a flushing of the vaginal lips and clitoris that a man would notice only if he's really looking and knows what your parts look like prearousal.

Women's arousal is one of the mysteries of sex and one of the things men can't figure out. So you may want to clue him in by showing him that you're feeling him. It will only make sex hotter. Letting out a low, soft groan or two usually gets it going, and men like it when women tell them they are getting excited — that only gets them more aroused. They like it even better when we talk dirty to them. Tell him the next time you feel like you are getting turned on. Guys don't need to be romanced, so if you want to let your boyfriend know that you're aroused, all you have to say is "I am so horny right now." It will be music to his ears.
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